Q&A: Where Do I Find the Energy?

by Crystal Paine

Q. "Where do you find the energy to do all this stuff? Like you I have one child, but I don't have a husband. I find myself physically and mentally drained constantly. A couple days ago I began crying because I was so tired, both mentally and physically. Granted I work about 40 hours a week on feet, but I'm not foolish enough to believe that my work is any harder than that of a stay-at-home mother. I just don't have the physical or mental energy to do projects like you. Like sewing, reading, small business etc. My "hobby," so to speak, is computer time." -Ash

A: Well, I'm not superwoman. :) I wish I had a lot more energy and hours in my day because there is a lot more I'd like to do!

You don't have a husband, so you are shouldering a lot more of a load than I am. I honestly can't imagine what it would be like.

I worked as a waitress for 5 years at a very busy, upscale restaurant and I know it can be extremely tiring. I think any job that requires you to be on your feet for hours on end just sucks the life out of you.

I do alot, but there are also a lot of things I don't do. I am very careful about committing to things and I say "no" a lot for the sake of my family and my sanity. I rely upon the Lord for His grace and strength. I also seek to make the most of everyday. There are so many things I want to do, read, study, write, and so on, so I want to pack as much into everyday as possible!

Practically speaking: Getting up early and starting my day out with time in prayer and reading God's Word is what gives me fuel for the day.

Eat well. Drink a lot of water. Exercise.

Have a schedule. Get rid of clutter. Learn to say "no." Plan ahead. Eliminate and concentrate.

Most of all: Enjoy life, enjoy your child, and live each day as you would want to live your last day.

Hmm... there's a lot more I could say... but I'm off to play with Kathrynne.

Crystal Paine is a 24-year-old homeschool graduate from Topeka, Kansas. She is the blessed wife of Jesse and joyful mother of Kathrynne. Visit her site, Biblical Womanhood, for books, articles, encouragement, and inspiration!

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