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Saving on Groceries
There is so much I could share on this topic, but here is just a small little excerpt from one of my ebooks (If you have any specific questions on this, please feel free to ask and I will do my best to try and answer!): Through Jesse’s tenure in law school, we have learned very well what it means to “pinch pennies.” It has been an excellent faith-building experience for us to truly have to rely upon the Lord to provide our daily bread. We have learned you can live on next to nothing with a cheerful, creative spirit! The following are some basic things which have helped us: Make a Budget
We would probably have starved a long time ago had it not been for our budget! Before we were married, we sat down and created a budget together. We highly recommend all engaged couples do this, if possible. There is freedom in having a budget because it provides strict spending boundaries. Our budget does not currently allow room for new clothes (I shop at used clothing stores. If you know how to dig and only buy things which are a good brand and in excellent condition, no one would ever know!), eating out, more than one vehicle, dentist appointments (we are looking forward to when that changes, but for now, we can live without), convenience foods (I only buy these if I can get them next to nothing with coupons), vacations, hair appointments, and other such luxuries. Because we made this budget together, we both agreed to the sacrifices we were going to be making in order to survive through law school. Every expenditure must be made with thoughtfulness. If you do not already have a good budget in place, I would recommend you sit down with your husband as soon as possible and discuss your budget in general and your grocery budget specifically. Ask your husband what kind of meals he would like for you to cook. It is important that we, as wives, do our best to cook meals our husband likes for that is one way we can show our respect and love for our husbands. Plan a Menu
When you have a menu planned for the week and you have written your grocery list off of this menu, it will cut down on a lot of “impulse buying” when you are at the grocery store. I take my calculator and my grocery list when I shop and stick to the budget and list. When planning your menu, plan simple meals. Fewer ingredients in a dish usually mean it will be less costly. We also do not have a lot of side dishes with our meals as this cuts down on costs as well. I will make a larger portion of the main dish and then just add a salad a bread to round it out. I plan our menu weekly around the store sales. I either use the store sale flyers or check out our store’s sales online (larger chain grocery stores usually list their weekly sales on their website). As I see what is on sale, I check my coupons to see if I also have coupons for items which are on sale. Oftentimes, if an item is on sale and I also have a coupon, I can get it for literally pennies. I have a large plastic container which houses all of my coupons which are subdivided in envelopes into various categories. I do not have the space here to share about my couponing system (which has saved us thousands of dollars on groceries as well) but perhaps I will in a later book. Since I have been planning our menu and grocery list this way for so long, it only takes me around 15 minutes or so to accomplish each week. It is worth every minute of that time for the money it saves us! Shop at More Than One StoreMaybe this seems like a lot of work to you, but it has saved us another large chunk of money over the past two years. I usually only buy the sale items and reduced items at our nicer grocery store and then I buy the rest of the items on my list at a discount grocery store. I do not always shop at two stores. Sometimes there are not any good sales at the nicer grocery store and so I will only go to the discount grocery store. On the other hand, sometimes there are a lot of sales at the nicer grocery store and so I skip going to the discount grocery store altogether. In order to be able to shop at more than one store to your advantage, you need to know what all the regular prices are for things you normally buy. If you do not know this off-hand, I suggest you take a notebook with you the next time you go shopping and record the regular price of everything you normally buy. After price-comparing for so long, I just know instinctively if something is the lowest price I can get it or not. Think Before You Spend
This might seem like a no-brainer, but learning to think before I spend has also saved me hundreds of dollars over the years. Ask yourself: 1) Do I have the money on hand to pay for this? 2) Do I need this? 3) Can I buy this somewhere else for less? Oftentimes, in asking these questions, I will talk myself out of making a purchase! I will realize I don’t really have the money to pay for it or I don’t need the item. Other times, I will think of a way I can purchase this item for less. These particular questions are good to ask yourself before making any purchase, not just when tempted to impulse buy at the grocery store! Stock Up and Save
When something is on a good sale, buy as many as you can afford in your grocery budget. But beware, just because something is "on sale" does not mean it is a good price-- it may still be half that price at the discount grocery store. Do your homework so that you know a good sale when you see one! If your grocery store has double-dollar coupons on occasion, it is imperative you stock up! (Providing you have coupons. If you don't get the Sunday paper, you can have friends or relatives give theirs to you, if they do not use them. I have a number of people do this, and I am always well supplied.) A couple of months ago, our local grocery store was having “Double Dollar” coupons and I spent $26 and saved $140!! We purchased enough toilet paper to last us for a year! Pray Before You Shop
My mom taught me to acknowledge God in all my ways (Proverbs 3:5-6) and see Him direct my paths! I have sought to apply this to little areas such as grocery shopping. You might think it odd for me to pray before I go into the store, but it is amazing to me how God will bless and multiply the little I have when I give it to Him! I have come out of the store time and time again with sacks of groceries which only cost me a very minimal amount and I know it is a direct answer to my prayers for God to bless my time in the grocery store. I have learned that often I have not, because I have not asked. God delights to bless His children when they put their trust in Him! Excerpted From Simply Centsible Suppers
Even More Home Management Binders
She Never Did Anything
While discussing the estate of a beloved relative, which involved the details of her tea cups and furniture, I was told by someone in her family that there wasn't much left to the family, from her belongings. This was, he said, because "she didn't do anything much.""She never worked outside the home," he said. "She didn't have any money."I felt sad that this was his attitude toward the worth of this woman. While I knew her--approximately 25 years, she created beauty and order in her home. She was a good helpmeet for her husband. She crocheted the most beautiful pieces I've ever seen. Her home exuded a warmth of old-fashioned welcome, that I have not been able to match. She sewed her own clothes and was a good cook. I always looked forward to visiting her. She had a cheerful response to everything, no matter what troubles came upon her.... Read Full ArticleHat-tip: Candy
Are You in a Binder Bind?
Another Home Management Binder
Family Man, Family Leader
My husband read this to me a few days ago. I appreciate him taking the time to type it up so that others could benefit from it as well. I only wish you could hear it read by him as he is such a great orator! He not only read these words to me, but he lives these words every day of his life! I'm so blessed.
A Father/Daughter Story You Won't Want to Miss
Our friends at Old-Paths.com are offering a free download of Jennie Chancey's beautiful message given as a tribute to her father at Vision Forum's 2005 Father/Daughter Retreat. Jennie Chancey is a wife, mother of 5, author, and owner of Ladies Against Feminism and Sense and Sensibility Patterns. Next to my mother, Jennie Chancey is probably the woman who has been the greatest example and mentor to me. She has encouraged and supported me in my endeavors and provided wise counsel and Godly advice. "A loving tribute to Mrs. Chancey's father, as well as a clear and beautiful explanation of Biblical womanhood, this message also includes Mrs. Chancey's testimony of being homeschooled, going away to college, being indoctrinated into feminist thinking there and, finally, her journey out of feminism. Highly recommended, especially for young, unmarried women still under their father's roof. Gather the family together to listen (little boys will enjoy hearing the stories about Mrs. Chancey's pilot father)! This message is not copyrighted so please feel free to distribute it to others!" Right Click here and choose "Save Target As" to download and save to your PC. File is 54.6 MB, MP3 format.
What does it mean "to reverence"?
I love the Ephesians 5:33 in the Amplified Bible: "However, let each man of you [without exception] love his wife as [being in a sense] his very own self; and let the wife see that she respects and reverences her husband, that she notices him, regards him, honors him, prefers him, venerates, and esteems him; and that she defers to him, praises him, and loves and admires him exceedingly]."
Light of Faith Resources
I'm so excited! One of my very favorite companies has finally finished their website. Jimmy Morris and his family are dear friends of ours and we so appreciate their company and the wholesome products they offer. Check out their brand-new website.
More Homemaking Binder Inspiration
Blog: Understanding the Information Reformation that's Changing Your World
Blog: Understanding the Information Reformation that's Changing Your Worldby Hugh Hewitt This book is a must-read for all my fellow bloggers and anyone contemplating starting a blog. Hugh Hewitt does an excellent job of making a case why everyone must join the blogosphere now, or forever wish you had. He encourages all businesses and people to recognize the magnificent impact a blog can have. Even if you are a nobody, you can become a well-respected individual just by starting a a blog! He gives the history behind blogging, the impact blogging already has had, and his predictions of what blogging will mean to the future. He also shares specific ways to utilize the blogging phenomenon to your greatest advantage and some practical do's and don'ts. If you have a blog, you will be inspired to use it to its fullest potential. If you do not have a blog, I can wager you'll begin one after reading this book! I would especially recommend his book to beginning bloggers and to those who have their own business. From the Publisher's Comments: "Up until now no influential blogger has written a definitive book about this phenomenon. Since Hugh Hewitt's blog site-HughHewitt-was launched in early 2002, more than 10 million people have visited this site. Why does this visitor traffic matter? People's attentions are up for grabs. If you depend upon the steady trust of others, suddenly you have an audience waiting to hear from you. The race is underway, though, to gain mindspace and to be part of the blogosphere readers' habits and to position yourself as well as your business or organization at the forefront of this information movement." I have one free copy of this book to give away for the price of shipping. Email me if you are interested!
Carrie's Home Management Journal
Carrie posted a detailed explanation of her "Countrol Journal" on her blog which you won't want to miss! Thanks to all of you for motivating us wives to be better managers of our homes!
How to Write an Ebook
I just posted this on my website and thought you all might enjoy it. Everyone has a gift, talent, or interest which others would love to learn about and they would pay to learn about it. Writing an ebook is one of the most simple ways to do this! All you need to do is write something, put it into pdf, and set it up to sell it. 1. Write Something. Start by asking yourself what your special interests are or what things you are knowledgeable about which others would like to learn about. What experiences have you been through which other people would find fascinating? Two areas which I've found people love reading about are creative home business ideas and ways to save money. Topic such as these will especially attract buyers because they will hope to get a lot more out of your ebook than they paid for it. If they expect the information in your ebook to save them quite a bit more money than they paid for it, they will usually be anxious to buy it. The same goes for ebooks on home business ideas. Pick your topic and start writing! The nice thing about ebooks is that they don't have to be long. 25-40 pages is a good size for ebooks, though longer or shorter is acceptable. Be sure to have a couple different individuals proof your ebook; typographical errors are so common nowadays, but that doesn't make them right or acceptable. Numerous typos in books or ebooks always leaves a poor reflection on the author. 2. Convert Your eBook to Pdf.Once you have written your ebook and have it laid out in an easy-to-read manner, you will need to convert it into pdf or an ebook format using an ebook program. If you do not already have a pdf program, you can download a free pdf converter program here. PDF is best to use for smaller ebook files, if you have a larger ebook file, I would recommend Ebook Generator. 3. Set Up Your eBook to Sell.In order to sell your ebook online, a great program to begin with is PayLoadz. I have been using PayLoadz for my ebooks and have been extremely happy with it. It allows you to set up the book process so that your ebooks can be instantly downloaded once your customer pays for them. This makes it much easier for everyone! Your customers will love being able to instantly download the ebooks and you will love not having to mess with sending them a download link. Once you have your ebook written and it set up on PayLoadz, you can just sit back and allow the payments to come in. You can set up an affiliate program through PayLoadz which allows others to make money by promoting your ebook. (See my affiliate marketing page for more information on this.) If you are planning to sell a lot of your ebooks and you want to have an affiliate program (which I highly recommend you do), ClickBank is an excellent program to consider using. They charge a $50 fee to set up your ebook and they take out a small percentage of each sale, but they will give you wide exposure for you ebook which you will probably not be able to generate from your website. In order to sell your ebook online, you need to have a website. It can be something extremely simple as just a two page sales-letter-type of website. There are multitudes of website options available out there. I would recommend starting out with something extremely simple. Two website hosting options you might consider are: Westhost or MicfoGroup If you know nothing about html, you could hire someone to create it for you or you could use something like Create Your Own Website. Make sure that you put testimonials on your website from people who have purchased your ebook (you can give away some copies in exchange for testimonials!). Testimonials add a lot of credential , especially if the people who write them have their own website or business in a similar field. If you write an ebook, be sure to write and tell me about it. I may even be interested in promoting it for you! And, if you have any questions, don't hesitate to write and ask! For more inspiration, here's an article I wrote last year... You Can Be An Author by: Crystal Paine“You should write a book.” For years, I had been hearing this comment. Writing an entire book seemed completely overwhelming, and so, for a long time, I contented myself with writing short articles. One day, inspiration for an article hit me and, as I started writing, paragraphs began flowing out at an enormous rate. Before I knew it, a rather lengthy piece was developing. It was too long to be an article, so, I decided it would not hurt to try self-publishing a little booklet. Was I ever surprised! The first printing of this 32-page black and white booklet sold out within a week. All of us have an area which we have more knowledge and experience than the person next to us. What many do not realize is that there is often a hungry market out there ready and willing to pay for the information we have to offer. Yes, it takes a tremendous amount of effort to see a book to completion and printing, but it is well worth it. Some things I have learned through the experience: 1. Start small. Don’t attempt to tackle a 400-page work for your first publication. You will also save yourself a bundle on printing if you keep it small. I recommend a booklet under 50-pages to launch your career as an author. 2. Enlist the help of others who are more experienced. If you know someone who has published anything, ask their advice and help. You will gain invaluable information from them and save yourself many headaches. In addition, request assistance from others for editing and proofreading. No matter how meticulous you are, it is always good to have other eyes review the final draft before it goes to the printer. 3. Be prepared to deal with disappointment. When you put your heart into something only to hear, "We're not interested," it is easy to take it personally. But, you must continually remind yourself that this is part of the package deal in self-publishing. For every "yes" you receive at least five "no's" (or so it seems). Learning to humbly and graciously accept rejection and keep pressing forward is an absolute must in self-publishing, especially at the beginning. 4. The more you market, the more you sell. You can publish an excellent book, but unless people know it is available, you cannot expect many buyers. The possibilities for marketing are endless. Check out all the books on marketing your local library offers. These will give you some great starter ideas. Send out an e-mail to friends, family, and business associates announcing your book’s publication date and offer a limited-time pre-publication special. Join self-publishing groups and let them know about your book. Ask others to promote your book. Be pro-active and do not be afraid to try novel ideas!
Another Homemaking Binder
If anyone is getting tired of all these home organization posts, forgive me. They are just such an inspiration to me, that I have to share them with you! Everyone has their own unique system and we can glean something new from each person. Here is Mrs. Happy Housewife's Homemaking Binder First Post and Second Post. And like always, post about your binder on your blog and then send the link my way and I'll be sure to post it here. Don't have a blog? E-mail me with your pictures and descriptions!
Free Homeschool Mom's Planner
Menus for Moms
Are you looking for some fresh new menu ideas? I recently stumbled across Menus for Moms and just had to share it with you! If you have ever wished that someone would plan your meals for you, then Menus 4 Moms is for you! Each week a menu for 5 nights is planned for you including recipes and a grocery list. No more last minute trips through the drive-thru or ordering pizza because you didn't plan ahead for dinner. Menus 4 Moms is completely free! Each menu is based on the Busy Cooks Pyramid, a wonderful time and money saving plan. Every menu contains notes explaining the meal and recipes to walk you through the preparation. Not only does Menus 4 Moms make meal planning a snap, but you will even end up stocking your freezer with extra meals on a regular basis. Sign up for Menus 4 Moms
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