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Random Question of the Day: Scheduling?
Anyone is welcome to answer this, but I'd especially love to hear from stay-at-home moms: Do you follow a consistent schedule everyday? If so, could you share the basics with us (or post the link, if you have it posted online). If not, why not?
My reason for asking is mostly because I am grappling with how to order our days. I had a pretty good schedule going, but now that Jesse's on a new schedule for work and school, Kathrynne is getting older, and the business is expanding, I am needing to make some pretty big adjustments in order to maintain order and fulfill my duties as homemaker, wife, mother, and business-owner in a God-honoring fashion. Due to Kathrynne's age, owning a business, and working as a marketing consultant for The Old Schoolhouse, it seems that a rigid schedule is not possible and a flexible routine might be the best solution. I would love to hear what works for your family and any suggestions you might have for me. I think we can all learn from one another and be encouraged to be the best keepers-at-home we can be!
More Wedding Pictures
 The Bridal Party- Mostly all family.  My little brother (Zachary-6), Kathrynne, and I.
Wedding Pictures
My sister and her husband finally sent me some of their professional wedding pictures and she gave me permission to post them here. I don't know which ones to choose from since they are all so beautiful! Click on the pictures to see a larger image.     Their wedding was July 2, 2005. Brigette and Eirik are currently living in Taiwan and serving in a Christian school there.
How's your Mama-love today?
From the Large Family Logistics Reminder List:
Have you tied any heart strings yet? It doesn't take much time.
If you haven't done anything yet, try out one of these ideas:
- An ear that is truly listening
- Eye contact.
- A hug and kiss.
- A "real" conversation with answers that are more than yes-no.
- Discuss a book.
- Take a blanket out under a tree.
- Play a game.
- Make someone's favorite food and do it together.
- Give out some praise.
- Take a walk with a different child each day.
What Have You been Working on?
 For all you wives and mothers (and young women, too!): What projects you have been working on to bless your family?One thing I've been working on is: Staying on top of the laundry and ironing (thanks to encouragement from everyone on here and Large Family Logistics). I have purposed to have all of the laundry done and put away every night and to work a little bit on ironing everyday. I found out that a lot of my problem in accomplishing these tasks was due to my systems. Once I moved my ironing board and clothes waiting to be ironed to a different room, it was much easier for me to pull out and work on a little at a time. Do you know how blessed my husband is to wear starched and ironed shirts to work everyday? A simple way that I can show him I love him and want to honor him. Plaque shown above from Simply Home Decor.
Let's Get Organized!
I know I already mentioned Large Family Logistics a few days ago, but I just have to mention it again. I have been so blessed by being on this list. The daily reminders and verses are such an encouragement to me in my role as a wife and mother and keeper of our home. I highly encourage you to visit their website and sign up for the Yahoo group. You will be blessed and encouraged and your home and family will appreciate it, too! Kim also has a blog with lots of great organizing tips and encouragement.
Everyday is a day for worship!
I appreciated what the Rabbi commented: "...EVERYDAY is a day for worship..."
In this crazily fast-paced society, many so-called "Christians" have this notion that Sunday is the one day in the week for worship. On the contrary, I believe that all of our lives should be poured forth as an act of worship to the Lord. Everything we do should be done to glorify and honor the Lord. The word worship in some of the Scriptures in the NT actually means "to serve, to minister." Yes, there should be regular times set aside for personal worship before the Lord-- praising God, praying, reading His Word, seeking His face. And there should be regular times of family worship. But worship is not just restricted to being on our knees before the Lord. You can also worship by scrubbing the kitchen floor! Let's worship the Lord all day long in everything we do!
A Day of Rest
I've enjoyed the thoughts on A Day of Rest. Jesse and I were convicted about six months ago of our need to "Keep the Sabbath day holy" and truly make it a day of rest as Scripture commands. Since the beginning of time, God set aside one day in seven as a day for rest-- to refresh our souls for the work He has called us to do the other six days. Jesse and I realized how certain activities we were doing on the Sabbath were not very "restful." So, we purposed to set aside the Sabbath as a day to enjoy the Lord, fellow Believers, and each other. A few things we try to do: Keep the computers off the entire day and refrain from spending money. Instead, we attend church, fellowship with other Believers, read, go to the park for a picnic, take a walk, talk, sleep, play games, or watch/listen to sermons. Having one day in seven where we are completely undistracted from the usual hustle and bustle of life has been a balm to our spirits and a real refreshment to our marriage, our family, and our individual lives. We look forward to this day all week long. It is definitely the BEST day of the week! How do you celebrate the Sabbath in your home?
Terror in the Skies
 Terror in the Skies: Why 9/11 Could Happen Againby Annie Jacobson I don't care what political persuasion you are, you need to get a copy of this book. Annie Jacobson, columnist for WomensWallStreet, had a harrowing experience aboard Northwest Airlines 327 with a group of suspected terrorists. This is her first-hand account of the flight and her year-long investigation which followed. This book is a fascinating read; I could barely put it down. Jacobsen uncovers a host of inconsistencies and massive breaches in our current immigration law, policies, and procedures--especially in the area of air travel. After reading this book, you will think long and hard before flying commercially again until something is done to fix these major problems. As Jacobsen clearly portays, the status quo is clearly not working, instead it is putting us in a very vulnerable condition. Terror in the Skies: Why 9/11 Could Happen Again is available for 50% off (only $12.48) for a limited time. Get the book. Related: Terror in the Skies: Exclusive Series on What's Really Going on Aboard Our AirlinersPlease note: This book is not written from a Christian worldview and there is one abbreviated swear word in the book which bothered me. Aside from that, I highly recommend the book!
A Technical Question
I received this question in my email inbox from a blog reader. Could anyone help out here?
"I've subscribed to your RSS feed, so I can easily keep track of new posts. I have a question, though. Do you know of a way I can keep track of the comments on someone else's blog?"
Infant Potty Training
Many have been asking for more information on infant potty-training and how we have done this with Kathrynne. You can read more about it in a previous post here: Infant Potty TrainingWe started Kathrynne at around 6 months (because I wanted to wait until she could sit up and be able to understand) and she caught on within about a week or less and has been successful ever since then. I don't think that it can be attributed to any brilliance on my part as a mother. She caught on very easily and prefers to go on the toilet. So, as long as I am consistent to remember to take her, I don't have to change very many diapers. It has not been difficult to do at all-- quite the contrary. I don't know that it would be this easy with every baby, but I certainly would rather train a baby than a 4-year-old. I've had enough experience with that to know it's not enjoyable!
Adventures in Baby Feeding
 Well, this week Kathrynne decided she was ready for table food! We had been holding her off because she had no interest whatsoever, only disgust for solid foods and I also wanted to wait until she was sufficiently potty-trained, if possible. Since she is sufficiently potty-trained (Read: She prefers to go on the toilet rather than in her diaper and provided I am consistent enough to take her, she has few "accidents" -- I'm anxious for her to be old enough to communicate with me more!), I was just waiting until she seemed "ready" for food. Well, this week was the week. I'm not sure what made the change, but she went from not ever putting things in her mouth to now wanting to eat anything and everything in sight! Anything and everything, except the homemade baby food I have been offering her, that is! I'm wondering if waiting until she was a little older will mean she will just transition straight into table food?? Regardless, we are having fun adventures letting her try out different foods. It's a whole new phase of motherhood. I miss having a newborn baby but I'm delighted at the little girl she is growing into. She is just totally precious and the older she gets, the more precious she becomes. Oh, being a mommy is just the most wonderful thing. Can't think of anything much more grand, except for being a wife! Speaking of which, I must run along. My King (aka: Husband) needs some victuals himself.
Homeschool Routines
Candy is calling all homeschooling moms to post their current homeschool routines.Since Kathrynne is only 8 months, we don't do a lot. But here is some of what she does: - Listens to Classical music.
- Participates in Family Devotions by sitting on Mom's lap and learning to sit still.
- Is learning basic sign language ("Yes," "No," "Please," "Thank You," "All Done").
- Sings hymns with Mom and sometimes in Family Devotions (she is learning to sing and usually will "sing" with us. She sang so loud during singing time at church last Sunday that you could hear her over everyone. It was so precious!).
- Sits on Mom's lap and listens to Mom read (at least 15 minutes per day).
- Sits and listens while Mom reads a story to her, reads verses to her from her verse book, and reviews her catechism cards (We try to do this everyday.).
We are mostly trying to focus on reading to her, talking with her, playing with her, and teaching her obedience (we have a long road to go on that one, but she is slowly learning!). I'd love to hear what other moms do with their younger children. I need all the encouragement, inspiration, and ideas I can get!
Friday's Blog Roundup
I am always emailing things to myself that I want to blog about later. Here are a few from this week: Looking for some frugal recipes? Check out: Miserly Moms I just found this page this week and we have already enjoyed a few of them. Into webdesign? Check out Mambo I've been impressed with what I've found out about this site and may very well use it for future projects. Thanks, Natalie. And while on the subject of Natalie, make sure to check out her brand-new resource for music teachers: Music Matters Blog. Natalie is just a whiz at computers, web design, creativity, and music, so this blog is chock-full of everything a music teacher could ever want to know. Mrs. Happy Housewife has own website! Check The Christian Enclave - excellent articles and they just asked me to be a regular columnist for them. I love FlyLady but always wish it was more geared for a Christian homeschooling mom. Well, now you have the best of both worlds with Large Family Logistics reminders list. I signed up this week and have been loving gleaning some great ideas and encouragement. Ladies, don't miss this!
Welcome to My Kitchen
People have been asking to see pictures of our home. I'd share some, but I'm afraid everyone would be a little disappointed. You see, I'm an extremely practical person and I like the color of white. I like pretty things, but I prefer a practical, clean, uncluttered look most of all. To give you an idea of what the rest of our home looks like, welcome to my kitchen... 
Home Organization Tip of the Day
Seven Pillars
Seven Pillars of Biblical Womanhood ( from Scott Brown): 1. A helpmeet, Genesis 2:18 2. Fruitful bearer of children, Genesis 1:28 3. Keeper at home, Titus 2:4 4. Teacher, Ephesians 6:1-4 5. Demonstration of unfading beauty, I Peter 3:4-6 6. Humble, obedient, respectful toward a husband, Ephesians 5:22-33 7. Domestic entrepreneur, Proverbs 31:10-31
Definition of Classical Education
Would someone who is much more educated and experienced like to weigh in on the definition of Classical Education? There have been some questions raised regarding my last post as to what it is and how it differs from traditional education. All thoughts welcome.
Classical Education
For those who Classically Educate:
- What books would you recommend we begin reading with Kathrynne now?
- What books would you recommend that we read to prepare for the future?
- Also, any particular websites you would recommend to help us learn more?
I'm reading Teaching the Trivium and loving it, but I really want to get on the ball here and I am just learning about Classical Education (neither of us were homeschooled that way and I don't personally know anyone who is following this method either).
The First Duty of Wives
"But it should be understood that for every wife the first duty is the making and keeping of her own home. Her first and best work should be done there, and till it is well done she has no right to go outside and take up other duties. She is to be a 'worker at home.' She must look upon her home as the one spot on earth for which she along is responsible, and which she must cultivate well for God if she never does anything outside." "There have been wives who in their zeal for Christ's work outside have neglected Christ's work inside their own doors. They have had eyes and hearts for human need and human sorrow in the broad fields lying far out, but neither eye nor heart for the work of love lain about their own feet." "Let it be remembered that Christ's work in the home is the first that he gives to every wife, and that no amount of consecrated activities in other spheres will atone in this world or the next for neglect or failure." -from Home-Making by JR Miller
I love being a mom!
Tonight, Kathrynne and I just spent a long while playing together before she went to bed. She is at such a fun stage-- constantly learning and trying to mimic everything I do and say. She loves to be with me, to have me hold her, to sit in my lap, to have me rock her, read to her, or sing to her. She just wants to be with me. I just love being a mom, if anyone hasn't figured that out yet! Yes, it's a lot of work. Yes, it's a lot of sacrifice. But it is so worth it. To have my little daughter look up adoringly into my eyes and just talk to me and say "I love you" in her own darling way... it melts my heart. How could you possible love anyone anymore? Sometimes in the busyness of life, we can forget how wonderful it is to be a mother. We get overwhelmed by the dishes, the laundry, the cleaning, the never-ending work to do, and we lose sight of the bigger picture. I know many, many mothers who are harried and tired, frustrated and worn out. You have so much on your plate and I don't know how you do it. I can easily get overwhelmed and I only have one child! But, what kind of testimony are we giving to others, especially to young women who aspire to be mothers? We are to be joyful mothers-- loving our husbands, loving our children, and fulfilled in the high calling God has given us. If you are not rejoicing where God has you, you need to step back and examine what is wrong in your life. Maybe you've overcommitted yourself, maybe you are pursuing things which God hasn't called you to. Eliminate and concentrate. You only have a short while with your children. Those other projects can wait. I've had to learn this and re-learn this and I probably will continue to try and master this the rest of my life. We all need to constantly be reminded.
Kathrynne With Her Portrait-- Especially for Shannon
  Our little Kathrynne is a wee bit spoiled getting presents from her Australian auntie and portraits done by professional artists! This is the portrait Shannon just finished for Kathrynne of when she was a newborn. It's just beautiful. Here is a close-up below. It's hard to capture on camera how beautiful it is. 
Our Little Princess -Pictures Especially for Kristy
We took some pictures for you, Auntie Kristy. :) Kathrynne finally can wear the outfit you sent!  Kathrynne is pulling up on everything and is just learning to stand up. I love her face here! I think her feet were slipping out from underneath her. She was standing up against the wall last night just hollering because she was so excited to be standing up.  Such a pure little face. Okay, so I'm biased, but she is just the sweetest doll. She's looking adorable up at her "pa-pa" (as she is learning to call him! She is learning to say "ma-ma" as well and often will say it when we ask her to!).
Big Government and Katrina
Maybe You Shouldn't Homeschool If...
A new camera!
 We finally got a new camera! Our old camera had contracted some sort of incurable disease two months ago and I had been putting off getting a new one in hopes it would revive. But alas, I couldn't resist an excellent deal on eBay to get a new camera and printer dock package. Here is the camera we got. We saved about $350 buying it off of eBay. So, pictures on Crystal's blog will resume. This picture was taken last night while we were testing out the camera. Kathrynne can make the most inquisitive expressions sometimes. Here she is trying to figure out what the camera is.
A Challenge to Wives
I have this quote in Home-Making underlined: "[A wife] brings out in [her husband] whatever is noblest and richest in his being." Oh, to be that kind of wife! I loved Candy's answer to anonymous here: What do you fill your mind with?
From the Laundry Pile
I was folding laundry yesterday and found that I had washed both a clothespin and a pacifier in the same load. Does that mean I'm a "real mom" now since non-clothes items are appearing in my laundry pile? :) Problem is, I can't blame it on my kids because I only have one and she's not old enough to put things in the laundry pile yet!
Not Just a Starter
As some of you may have noticed from reading my blog or interacting with me, I'm a great starter and always have lots of new ideas floating around in my "overactive" brain. But what you probably also have noticed is that I am not the best at actually completing tasks. Has anyone else noticed an excessive amount of "Part 1" posts I've done and then never followed up with a "Part 2"? I love starting new things-- new books to read (I have probably at least 20 started right now, I'm embarrassed to admit), new projects to sew (Just take a peek into my craft area in the closet to figure this one out!), and new business ideas (Don't even ask how many business ideas poor Jesse has had to talk me out of! Like I really can add anything to my schedule! Yet, I always think, "C'mon, just this one more thing. It's a great idea, it won't take that much time. I promise I'll try to have dinner on time from now on and no more clean laundry piles on the bed, and yes, I WILL make sure there are sheets on the bed tonight.") But, finishing? What's that? I have often found myself envying those people who can have one project and they can stick with that one project until it is done and then they move onto the next thing. Me try to do that? You've got to be kidding! Instead, it seems our home is one big string of unfinished projects-- laundry to fold over here, books to read in that corner, letters to answer over there, a cleaning project to finish. I guess I could very well fit the classification of a Sidetracked Home Executive. If it weren't for my inability to stand clutter and mess, our home might very well constantly look like a tornado had just swept through! I'm so thankful that God is not just a starter, He is also a Finisher. I was reading a sermon by C.H. Spurgeon this morning and this quotation struck me: "Many people have only believed in God to save them for a time; so long as they are faithful, or so long as they are earnest. Beloved, believe in God to keep you faithful and earnest all your life: take a ticket all the way through. Get a salvation which covers all risks. There is no other ticket issued from the authorized office but a through-ticket. Other tickets are forgeries. He that cannot keep you for ever cannot keep you a day. If the power of regeneration will not last through life, it may not last an hour. Faith in the everlasting covenant stirs my heart's blood, fills me with grateful joy, inspires me with confidence, fires me with enthusiasm. I can never give up my belief in what the Lord hath said, 'And I will make an everlasting covenant with them, that I will not turn away from them, to do them good; but I will put my fear in their hearts, that they shall not depart from me.' "
Ten Tips for a wife to encourage her marriage
I have such a long way to go in this arena! Inspite of my shortcomings each day, God and my husband graciously grant me forgiveness and a new day to continue learning and growing in my wifely roles. Maybe some of you older women (or younger women, too!) could comment and add to the following list? We young wives need all the encouragement and help we can get! Ten Tips for a wife to encourage her marriage
Courtesy of Beall Phillips, given at a recent bridal shower. Thanks to Kim for posting them.1. Praise him privately, sincerely, for something different once a day. 2. Praise him publicly, in front of others, and to others. 3. Watch your words: Remember that what you say has a powerful influence over him. 4. Keep yourself attractive. Freshen up and look your best when he comes home, even if dinner burned and the dog messed on the carpet. 5. Write him notes, handwritten and e-mail, to remind him you are thinking of him. 6. Be the first to say I'm sorry, mean it, and don't make it conditional on anything. 7. Pick up after him cheerfully, without drawing attention to it, just because you love him. 8. Make him your focal point, not your housekeeping, not your cooking, not even your children. If your relationship with him is solid and happy, everything else will fall into place. Make him successful in every way you can, and remember, if he is successful, you will be too. 9. Remember the "bigness" of the diversity of your roles: sweetheart, confidant, counselor, best friend, encourager. Remember they all add up to: completer. 10. Pray for him continually and NEVER forget the burden of responsibility he carries as the head of your home.
Q & A: Foreign Languages
Q: "...I was just going to ask about how you were going to teach another language in homeschool. Are you still gonna teach Spanish? -Ash" A: Ash, I'm not sure if we will teach Spanish or not. We plan to follow a Classical education model, so we will be teaching Latin primarily and the some Greek and Biblical Hebrew. At least, that's the plan right now. Jesse and I are hoping to start learning Latin soon (anyone know of a recommended curriculum?) so that we cna better teach it. Teaching a foreign language while homeschooling is very simple to do. There are many, many excellent courses out there to choose from. The hard part is just figuring out which one will work best for your family! In high school, I studied Spanish for one year and Biblical Hebrew for one year (this was before the our state laws mandated two years of the same foreign language. When I graduated, you only had to have 2 years of foreign language, so I combined two). My mom lived in Mexico for some time when she was in high school, so she is fairly fluent in Spanish and so she has taught all of the younger children Spanish for their foreign language (They have all started when they were quite a bit younger. I wish I had learned a foreign language at a younger age. It is a lot harder to learn when you are older.)
Jesse's Surprise
For those of you who wanted to know, Kathrynne and I planned an International Journey Dinner for Jesse last Friday night. Jesse really would like to visit some other countries someday, but since that isn't currently in the budget, we brought the other countries to him, complete with a history lesson on a great man of God from each country we "visited"! I met Jesse at the door with a blindfold and led him into the bathroom and told him to take off the blindfold and there he would find his instructions. In the bathroom was his tuxedo and a note: "Welcome to Your International Journey. Please change into appropriate entire and replace your blindfold." I quickly changed into a formal dress and then Kathrynne and I led him to our first destination: Scotland (aka: The Bedroom). There we enjoyed Empire Biscuits and tea and talked about John Knox. Next we journeyed to France (aka: The Office) and had French Vegetable Soup and Baguettes while learning about John Calvin. Our next destination was to England where we savored Bubbles and Squeak (whoever named that, I don't know, but it was really good and Jesse asked if I would please make it again!) and discussed Charles Spurgeon (if you have the time, read this article. It is so inspiring!). Our final stop was to Ireland where we ate Irish Chocolate Cake (it was a lessen in conversion of liquid and dry measurements to make this one-- I've never had to do that so much before. And whoever heard of choclate cake with mashed potatoes in it? It was good nonetheless.) and were introduced to Columba (never heard of him before, but it was fascinating to study about him!). All in all, it was a wonderful evening and Jesse loved it. It did take some effort, but it was worth it!
Q & A: Children's Books and Preschool Curriculum
Q. "We have been trying to find some good children's Bible story books, also. Do you have any to recommend? -Tammy" A. We have searched and searched for good children's books and find they are far and few between, especially Bible story books. We don't want ones that have cartoon pictures or nonBiblical accounts of Bible stories. That about rules all of them out. So far, we've mainly just stuck with reading the Bible to her. We also have a Bible verse book which we read to her from Scripture Memory Fellowship ( Bible Forget-Me-Nots ) and the catechism cards we are doing with her. For other wholesome reading material, we haven't found much, but here are a few books I can recommend for preschool-aged children: Little Pillows and Morning BellsThe Lord Builds the HouseBless the LordI also really like the Rod and Staff Preschool Curriculum and this Preschool Workbook Set. Videos (straight Bible stories, no goofy entertainment or cartoon characters): Mr. Fixit Bible StoriesPuzzles from TimberdoodleReadyWriterOther recommendations, please? I know there are some great things out there for young children, I just am still trying to find them!
We are working on a surprise...
Kathrynne and I have been planning a surprise for Jesse's 25th birthday for the past two weeks. Tonight is the night and we're so excited about blessing our wonderful husband and father. I'd tell you all about it, but the "surprisee" (Is that a word?) happens to read this blog regularly and I don't want to spoil anything. So, hopefully I can give a full report tomorrow. For now, I must hop off and get busy finishing the preparations!
Little Bitty Baby Learns Hebrew
 Little Bitty Baby Learns Hebrewwritten and illustrated by Johannah Bluedorn Jesse and I just love this book! Thanks to the Bluedorns for providing what few others might come up with--- a foreign language boardbook for toddlers. We have been reading it with Kathrynne and she seems to enjoy it, too. For anyone who wants to teach their child Hebrew at an early age, this book is your answer. Includes all the letters and their pronunciations, along with simple illustrations and step-by-step instructions for learning to write the letters yourself. A must for every Classical educators library!
My Mommy, My Teacher
 My Mommy, My Teacher
by Johanna Bluedorn This delightful book will bring a smile to your daughter's face. Written from the perspective of a little 7-year-old girl who is in a Classical homeschooling family, she shares in simple terms how they live their everyday lives. Kathrynne and I have enjoyed reading it together many times. Even though it is a children's book, I found it very enjoyable and motivational to hear how this Christian family lives, works, prays, plays, and stays together. In an age when wholesome children's reading material is very hard to find, My Mommy, My Teacher stands apart. I highly recommend this for anyone with young daughters.
The Facts of Life
 The Facts of Life and Other Lessons My Father Taught MeLisa Whelchel Ever wonder what it would be like to go from being a child movie star, hit TV show actress making 2 million a year, to being a pastor's wife and homeschooling mother of 3 trying to make ends meet? This is Lisa Whelchel's story. Not necessarily an autobiography, but rather a collection of lessons she has learned throughout her life, this book was an encouragement to me in my walk with the Lord. I especially appreciated Lisa's candid writing on mistakes she's made in her past and how the Lord gave her the grace to stand up for the truth, even if it meant she would lose money, her reputation, or even her job because of it.
Easier to go to the mission field...
 "Many would find it easier to yield themselves to go to the Mission Field than to yield their womb to the Lord." -From Be Fruitful and Multiply
Lazy Granola
This is my favorite granola recipe. It is the easiest one you will ever find! Lazy Granola
Mix 1/2 cup each of brown sugar, oil, and honey in a saucepan. Bring to a low boil. Add 1 tsp. cinnamon and 2 tsp. vanilla. Pour over 7 cups of oats in a large pan. Stir until coated. Bake at 375 for 10 minutes. Take out and stir. Put pan back in over, turn off, and go to bed.
The Search for Hoppyness
I received this beautiful testimony from blog reader, Shannon, today. It touched my heart. To give you a little background, Shannon is a part of the 7-Week Home Business Course I am teaching and one of the first assignments was for each participant to share their testiony of how the Lord has led them thus far and why they are a part of the course. Shannon graciously gave me permission to post this here. I am praising the Lord along with her for the work He has done in her heart. I feel unworthy to be a little part of that work. "....all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose."-Romans 8:28 At the age of 17, I thought I knew it all. Where I was going, what I wanted to do, and my understanding of life. I had been through some major losses. The death of my grandparents-who were two of my best friends. As well as many family problems, weighed heavily on my shoulders. I wanted an outlet, a refuge. I believed in God, but I didn't let Him lead the way. I graduated from High School in 1996, and enrolled in community college. I excelled academically. Making the Dean's List, and continued to do so when I moved on (or should I say ran to) University and art school. I did little to nurture my soul. I attended church a few times, but never really got serious about my spiritual health. I buried myself in my studies, without ever asking God where I needed to be at. It was all about where I thought "I" needed to be. As time went on, I developed severe depression and ran to a Doctor on campus who prescribed a cocktail of pills, and diagnosed me with a mood disorder. The side effects of the medicine, and the demands of schoolwork were too much for me and I simply bottomed out. I ended up moving back home with my mother and eventually ended up on a medical disability. I felt so much shame, from having to be on Social Security as well as dealing with continued family problems and medical challenges. I wanted to give up. Why was "God" doing this to me? Why was my family messed up? Why did I lose my grandparents so soon? I felt so robbed of joy, that I began to blame others around me. There was one thing, throughout the whole ordeal (much of it self-inflicted) that kept me going. My art. Which, of course was given to me by God. I had always loved to draw. One of my favorite designs was my frogs, and I did a brief collection of them back in 1997. However, I started listening to the wrong voice and instead ran off to Liberal University. Then one day in March 2004, a voice beckoned me to go to my computer and start writing. I was like, "What!?" I had wanted to write a book featuring my cartoons for quite some time, and the moment had come. In less than a few hours I had wrote my first christian book-The Search for Hoppyness. I shared it with my mother, a strong christian who cried tears of joy when I read it to her. She has been a very strong supporter of this book! I spend the remainder of 2004 illustrating it and editing the text. It was around this time that I had stumbled upon the courtship story of Jesse and Crystal Paine. Having come from a liberal background, I was rather surprised. Wasn't courtship extinct!!??" But as time went on God opened my heart to the truth about relationships and particularly, the wonderful plan He has for us women! I was able to get out of a relationship that was potentially unhealthy for me, and follow the path God has laid out. I continued to follow the Paines wonderful website and read about Crystal's blossoming role as a wife, mother and homemaker. I saw how happy and fulfilled she is! (Not trying to covet!) and I started to understand why I had been brought to the place I am at. God had been using this time on disability to develop a home-centered approach and prepare to be a future homemaker. I don't have to hold a fancy degree or lucrative outside career to be loved or provided for by Him. Sometimes it is hard to live by myself, but I know that time will change and more doors will open for me. I currently have an apartment and love to keep it decorated and tidy. I am also learning to be a better cook (move over Chef Boyardee!!) and hope to take sewing lessons in the future. My depression is slowly improving as I work with my hands and learn ways to please God to build treasures for eternity! I pray to one day be independent of government assistance and be more self-reliant. It is by God's grace and love that he provides for all of his children, aside from any impressive college or federal paycheck. It is my goal to start a business promoting and selling my art/writing. I truly desire to publish my "Hoppy" book and sell related merchandise such as decals, mugs, shirts through ebay and other avenues. I also want to sell my baby art that features sculptures, drawings and inspirational poetry to promote the Pro-Life message. In my frog book, there is a final line that resonates with where I'm at. It reads, "The Search for Hoppyness, is a Leap of Faith!" We are all doing that in this course. Stepping out of our ponds (at times swamps!!) and taking that magnificent jump for joy in knowing that God made us to be better, and do better than what we even consider as "good." That all is not lost, and we don't have to succumb to financial struggles. God provides! Thank you, Jesse and Crystal, for reaching out a helping hand in this big Hop I'm about to embark on!
French Women Don't Get Fat
 French Women Don't Get Fat : The Secret of Eating for Pleasure by Mireille Guiliano For any of my regular blog readers, you know I have enjoyed this book for how many times I have mentioned it. Thank you to those of you who have been patiently waiting my review!
Mireille Guiliano was raised in France and then moved to America as an exchange student during which time she acquired a wonderful American trait-- obesity. When she returned to France, she was reintroduced to the classic principles of French gastronomy by "Dr. Miracle." They worked so well for her that she has never had a problem with being fat again, even though she lives in New York for half of each year. This book contains the simple strategies and tricks French women use to keep their figure. Sprinkled throughout are a number of delicious recipes (We've tried the Vegetable Soup, Baguettes, and Apple Tart so far and I hope to try out many of the rest in the near-future). Some of the tips are no-brainers and yet Americans still seem to have no brains! -Eat smaller portions of more things. -Eat more vegetables. -Eat more fruit. -Don't eat "fat-free" "sugar-free" -- go for the real thing in moderation. -Enjoy chocolate- real chocolate- not the watered-down, sugared-up kind that Americans call "chocolate." -Don't snack all the time. -Don't let yourself be hungry. -Never eat standing up or on the run and especially not in front of the TV. -Never feel stuffed. -Don't watch much TV. -Eat what's in season. -Drink water all day long. -Walk everywhere you can. -Take the stairs whenever possible. -Don't diet. Obviously, there were some things I disagreed with from this book since it was written from a nonChristian perspective. Food should not be an idol, but neither should it be a slave. I do believe that God has given us "all things to enjoy" and He gave us food to it and called it "very good." We can and should enjoy food, but this book might encourage one to place a little bit too much emphasis on food. Also, I don't endorse Page 168-180 or any of the other sections on drinking wine (which, was, surprisingly, not a very large part of the book). And Chapter 11 ("The States of Desire") has some really weird philosophies, which I wouldn't agree with either. Overall, though, I thought the book had some excellent ideas and encouragement for those who struggle with their weight. If you are tempted to follow fad diets, I would definitely recommend this book.
A Poignant Portrayal
My husband and I thought this hand-painted sign warning looters was both amusing and sad. On the other hand, this article was just plain awful (not for younger readers). But what can you expect from a society who, for the most part, no longer acknowledges God? Without God, there can be no basis for morality. There you have, my friends, a very poignant portrayal of how humanism has affected our society. And it's not a pretty sight.
Frugal Recipes
 Frugal Recipes Submitted by Blog Reader, Kerri:Creamy Italian Chicken
1 cup Italian dressing 1 can cream of mushroom soup 1 8oz block cream cheese egg noodles chicken breasts (4-6 small ones cut into handling sizes) Put chicken in crockpot with italian dressing and cook for 3 hours. Then, mix soup and cream cheese and add to pot. Cook for additional hour and then serve sauce and chicken over noodles. Serve with a salad and bread. Quick and Easy Fruit Cobbler
1 can of peaches in syrup (canned make a good one too!) 1 stick of butter 1 cup of sugar 1 cup of Self-rising flour 1 cup of milk Mix sugar, flour and milk together, melt butter in a 13x9 pan and then pour in the sugar, flour and milk mixture. Pour fruit on top, with juices and bake in 350-375 oven until brown on top. For more frugal recipes, click here.
Helping the Victims Part 4
My friends, The Rushton Family, are working feverishly to put together many different ways you can help the hurricane victims. They are coordinating the first of many Mission Trips to the Hurricane Victims. You can also donate many items which they will personally deliver to the victims. See pictures of the hurricane damage from their trip to Mississippi. I encourage you to get your whole family involved in helping, even your children. Teach your children about helping those in need and that "it is more blessed to give than to receive." Help them have a lemonade stand or bake sale and donate the proceeds to a charity. Encourage them to give some of their allowance or hard-earned money to this cause. And ask yourself and the Lord what you can give up or go without to help others. Christians especially need to step up to the plate in this time of need. We are so abundantly blessed in this country. So many people are complaining about the gas prices. Why? Because we are a spoiled country. We should just be glad we have a vehicle to drive. Many people don't even have a bicycle. Stay home more, enjoy the simple pleasures of life, ride your bike to work, or walk to the grocery store. But, don't complain about the gas prices. Be grateful to have a roof over your head, clothes to wear, food to eat, and a family to love. Many people lost all of those things this week.
Bibles for the Refugees
Lori Seaborg ( Hurricane Katrina) says that there is an urgent need for Bibles for the refugees. If you are interested in sending some, here is more information: With our big homeschool group, we can distribute Bibles throughout the Alabama Gulf Coast, which includes two of Alabama's largest counties. Hundreds of refugees from Mississippi and Louisiana are in our shelters.We can pass out Bibles, if you can get them to us.The refugees left their homes with few or no belongings.Send Bibles via Media Mail to:Tim and Lori Seaborg18930 Highland DriveFairhope, AL 36532Hat-tip: Spunky
Operation Extended Family
Scott Somerville , staff attorney with HSLDA, asks for help from homeschoolers to temporarily house other homeschool families displaced by the hurricane. Here's the info from his blog, One bright spot revealed by Hurricane Katrina is that homeschoolers are some of the most generous people around. HSLDA's office has been inundated with offers of assistance. We've also heard from many with needs.The Home School Foundation is already helping to replace curriculum. But one of the greatest needs that we're hearing about is housing. If your family would be interested in providing temporary housing to another homeschooling family displaced by Hurricane Katrina, HSLDA is willing to match your family with a family who needs a place to stay.To make an offer of housing, please provide us with the basic information requested below. Email it to hurricanerelief@hslda.org. Please be assured that we will keep your contact information confidential. When we learn of a family that needs help, we will contact you with their contact information (phone number or email address) and you can contact the family to determine if they are the right match for your family. Name: Address: City, State, Zip: Phone #: Limitations: (e.g., two months max, only want boys, teenagers only, can take up to 4 people)Provide transportation to your home: (e.g., bus tickets, frequent flyer miles, will pick up) Any special facilities: (e.g., handicapped access, room for pets) Other offers of help: (e.g., can provide job, have curriculum for 3rd grader, car available) Thank you for being a part of the extended homeschooling family. Please join us in continuing to pray for these hurting familes. Sincerely, J. Michael Smith President Hat-Tip: Spunky
Kathrynne Update
Some lighter blogging fare for today... I'm rather worn out from this week and my brain and body are in low gear this afternoon. Completing a book is always a rather monstrous task that takes much more time than you can ever expect. We are enjoying a low-key extended weekend. Kathrynne has been busy learning many new things recently among them: - Learning how to crawl (instead of scoot, like she had been doing for some time!).
- Pulling up on things and crawling over things.
- Getting into a sitting position from lying down.
- Learning to wave "bye-bye".
- New sounds: "A-da" (Which Jesse is just positively sure means "da-da"!), "bo-bo"
- Potty-training: We take her after every feeding and she goes 99.9% of the time. I have been rather surprised myself at how little effort it took for her to learn this. And I don't really know where to go from here. I think I will just try and be consistent with this and see where it leads.
- Sitting still through entire church services. I don't know if this habit is there to stay, but she's been doing really well at learning to sit still.
- Obedience: We're still working on helping her to understand this concept, but I think she is gradually getting it. It is a delight to see her want to honor and please us.
- Transitioning from bottle (with water-- she loves drinking water!) to a sippy cup.
She turned 7 months last week. She still has no interest in solid foods, other than wanting to smear them around on the table and her hands. The three times we have tried to feed her, she has gone through awful spitting contortions! So, we have decided to wait a bit longer.
How Then Should We Educate?
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