"We Don't Need Men Anymore"
The feminists have it all figured out...
Women can do everything, be everything, and be everyone. Women are equals to men with identical roles. Women don't need men anymore.
Thus, women are taking over in the families, in the churches, in the government. Women are making more money and earning more degrees. Women don't need men anymore.
What's the point of even being a man nowadays when all you're good for is being run over, made fun of, dragged around on a leash like a dog, and, if you're lucky, being relegated to the position of "Mr. Mom"?
Women don't need men anymore. No wonder our country is falling apart at its seams.
Women can do everything, be everything, and be everyone. Women are equals to men with identical roles. Women don't need men anymore.
Thus, women are taking over in the families, in the churches, in the government. Women are making more money and earning more degrees. Women don't need men anymore.
What's the point of even being a man nowadays when all you're good for is being run over, made fun of, dragged around on a leash like a dog, and, if you're lucky, being relegated to the position of "Mr. Mom"?
Women don't need men anymore. No wonder our country is falling apart at its seams.
posted by Crystal Paine at 9:14 PM
17 Comments:
Why do women even *want* to compete with men? We will never *be* men, we cannot compete. We will never be equal to men...we are certainly not superior or inferior to them, but definitely not equal either (equal means the same). I prefer to just be the best 'woman' that I can be, the woman God created me to be...leave being a man to the men.
I need my man!!!!!! LOL. Somebody has to provide for me!!!! LOL.
I've made a lot of feminists very upset by this post (no surprise). I may or may not post the many comments that have been left by these. I don't have time to respond to them each right now, but I wanted to clarify...
Many have commented to say that feminists don't believe they don't need men and that my assessment in untrue. Maybe that is what you believe, but you are certainly not giving any credence to such belief by your words or actions.
If you try to say that men and women are equal (i.e. exactly the same, there is no difference) and that women can do everything men can do in addition to doing everything women do (keep house, have children, etc.), you are completely wiping out the need for men. Maybe you wouldn't come out and say that, but that is the conclusion of your philosophy. And that has been the result in our culture -- we have a culture of wimps, of emasculated men, of sissies. Men who won't take responsibility, won't lead, and don't care. What else can you expect of them when they're made to feel as if they are good for nothing?
Crystal,
Love the sentiments in your blog. The Lord obviously created men and women to fulfill different roles.
I am often amazed at the practical aspects to this statement. My husband and I complete each other in ways that after 22 years together we are still discovering. Where he is weak, I am stronger and he lifts me up and carries me along in other areas.
While the truth is that in Christ we are "equal" ...Galatians 3:28, There is neither Jew nor Greek, there is neither slave nor free man, there is neither male nor female; for you are all one in Christ Jesus....it is also true that we were created to fulfill difference functions in life.
I believe that people who disagree with this fact are purposefully blinding themselves, not only to God's Word, but also to the obvious testimony of male/female relationships.
Keep up with the strong stance for Biblical womanhood!
Well said, Crystal!
Hmpt. Yeah...why would guys ever want to get out of bed in the morning? Oh, the things a woman can do to squash a man.
Praise God for opening our eyes to cherish our men. :D
Crystal -
You couldn't be more right! Don't take offense to the nasty responses you get from feminists. Their primary focus is, and has always been, themselves. Without realizing it, they are fixated on selfishly taking until they get what they are "entitled" to.
I pray that someday they will, like me, realize that true joy is found in living for others. (I say this as a former feminist.)
I bet you are getting a alot of negative comments from that one, Crystal.
I just finished reading one of Laura Schlessinger's books and even though she is not a Christian, it was so interesting to see her assessment about men. She approaches it from a biologist's perspective. Men are just very different from women by the way they are created.
The book was "Ten Stupid Things Men Do To Mess Up Their Life," but it could've been written for women as well. In fact there is a companion book for women with the same title. It is probably ten years old.
I thank GOd everyday that men are so different and so much better at taking care of me than I am myself. No doubt I could work and live independently and pay my bills and even have a baby via some lab. I wouldn't need a man to survive in todays' culture but I do need a man to truly live the way God would have me live. God has designed us so perfectly for our roles and it makes life so much more enjoyable if we conform to them instead of rebel against them.
BTW, some singles might think I am accusing them of having an unfulfilled life. No way. I was never cut out for being single and made a terrible single. Many single women are doing great work for the glory of God. They should be praised for this and encouraged.
Hi Zan! I've missed reading your comments around the blogosphere, glad to see you comment again! (o:
amen, amen and amen!
homemakerang
I need my hubby and love him so much!
I'm grateful for posts like these! It's so sad to think about all of the negative effects that feminism has had on our society. I feel badly for so many men who are left feeling inadequate, worthless, and confused about what role they are supposed fill. This is definately a topic that cannot be ignored, even if it becomes controvesial! It's comforting to know that a lot of feminists read your posts, because it makes me think that God may be working on their hearts!
Crystal, thanks for screening your comments and not posting the vitriolic responses you got to this post...I was anticipating a lot of ugliness in the comment section, and it was very refreshing to see encouragement! Sometimes it's good for discussion to happen, but it's also pleasant when you spare us from the stuff you have to see sometimes! : )
I need my husband....MY MAN!!!
I happily depend upon him to lead and guide me.
We often comment to each other how life would be better if it didn't become such a feministic society (for instance the financial burdens caused by women almost being EXPECTED to go out and be bread winners with their husbands....I want to be the provider in my home, not on a part time basis)! It just isn't fair...but hopefully those people will start to realize some old fashioned values aren't necessarily bad values to have.
I don't want to be a man and I'm so grateful I have my husband to guide me and care for me and my children.
Regina
Happy to not be a feninazi aka feminist
I praise God for the difference in women and men. He did give us each a role and in our society, it is turned upside down. God gave me a precious man.We have been married 37 yrs.We have 3 wonderful sons and He has taught each of them how to be men. I thank the Lord for all my men. I have 4 sister's, they are all feminist and don't see where I'm coming from.I pray they will see this before its too late.I'm like the rest of you,I need my man and appreciate him very much.
My Place
I’m proud to be
Your Mom you see
I love this place
God gave to me
And in this place
A wife I am
God gave to me
A marvelous man
My purpose
In this place so grand
Is loving my children
And loving my man.
©written in Jesus name by Mrs. Geraldine Rose 7/29/03
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