Thursday, June 15, 2006

Worthy of Double Honor: A Father's Day Tribute to My Dad

I wrote this last year for my dad for Father's Day and shared it on my blog, but I wanted to post it again this year since it still rings so true!


"Let the elders that rule well be counted worthy of double honour, especially they who labour in the word and doctrine." 1 Timothy 5:17

Dad, I'm so thankful to not only have you as my father, but also to have been under your leadership as elder of our church for so many years. Even though I am no longer living in the same town as you and therefore attending a different church, I still think you are deserving of "double honor"!

You have always lived out the bishop qualifications given in 1 Timothy 3:2-7:

"A bishop then must be blameless"

You have always been above reproach. Yes, I know you're not perfect, but you have always been an excellent example!

"the husband of one wife"

Your marriage is honorable. You emulated to me the qualities of the kind of husband I always wanted to have. You have always been faithful to love and serve Mom and sacrifice for her.

"vigilant"

You are a hard worker. Whatever you put your hand to, you do with all your might. And you are always on the lookout for dangers for us and constantly helping to keep us on guard so that we are protected from sin and error.

"sober"

You have never been rash. You are always steady and easy-going. Even if others are terribly upset and angry, you keep your cool and keep your tongue.

"of good behaviour"

Your life is such a testimony to me and many others!

"given to hospitality"

You always display hospitality. I can't even begin to imagine how many families and individuals you have initiated inviting over to our home. Thank you for giving us the opportunity to serve so many in this way.

"apt to teach"

I appreciate the many things you taught me. Not only through just your life example, but through the countless family devotions you led and all of the sermons you preached at church.

"Not given to wine"

You have always had such balance in your life. You were never "overboard" in any area. Always cautious, but never too hesitant.

"no striker"

You were never one to be contentious or to meddle in things which didn't concern you.

"not greedy of filthy lucre"

You have never been greedy for fame or money. I remember how you always encouraged us to seek to minister to others, never to try to gain money or reputation.

"but patient"

You are one of the most patient people I know. You have had plenty of opportunities to get impatient in your life and yet you always stay calm.

"not a brawler"

You are never one to start an argument with others. You can always quietly disagree and walk away. How I wish I could be more like this!

"not covetous"

You are always happy for others to get praise, when you were actually responsible for. You have always been content with where God has you and what God has given you.

"One that ruleth well his own house, having his children in subjection with all gravity"

I know that we weren't always in perfect subjection to you, but you always patiently and lovingly trained and discipled us "in the way we should go."

"Not a novice"

You definitely aren't a "novice"-you are quite a pro, in my eyes, at least!

"Moreover he must have a good report of them which are without"

Everyone likes you! I have always been amazed at how you are able to converse and interact with anyone at any level.

"The elders which are among you I exhort, who am also an elder, and a witness of the sufferings of Christ, and also a partaker of the glory that shall be revealed: Feed the flock of God which is among you, taking the oversight thereof, not by constraint, but willingly; not for filthy lucre, but of a ready mind; Neither as being lords over God's heritage, but being ensamples to the flock. And when the chief Shepherd shall appear, ye shall receive a crown of glory that fadeth not away." 1 Peter 5:1-4

Your reward in heaven will be great!

There are so many other things I could say about you, this listing is very incomplete. Most of all, I just wanted to say thank you for being such a wonderful father! Happy Father’s Day! I love you! Your Daughter, Crystal

1 Comments:

Anonymous Jessica in NYC said...

I love this, Crystal, and am very moved by it! Your dad must have treasured it!

I am getting emotional just thinking about my own Dad and how precious he is to me - but I just got to see him yesterday, and I am blessed to have a fiance who truly loves and respects my father, so what am I complaining about? :-)

Hope you had a great weekend and that Jesse enjoyed his Father's Day!

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