Monday, April 28, 2008

Beginning afresh

I had the privilege of attending the MPE homeschool conference this weekend and what a blessing it was! I've been to numerous homeschool conferences before but this one was one of the most encouraging that I've attended in a long time.

As Kathrynne is nearing school age, I've been feeling more and more pressure to do more academics with her. This pressure was completely self-imposed but it was there nonetheless.

I went to the conference feeling somewhat burdened down by my need to figure out more clearly what curriculum and books I should be doing with Kathrynne and what direction we should be taking. It was overwhelming but I was determined to try and make some headway.

The first session by Voddie Baucham completely knocked me off my feet and out of my little self-imposed guilt-trip.

Why was I so concerned and uptight about academics? Yes, I want my daughters to have a high-quality education but are academics really what is most important to me? Shouldn't my focus instead be on instilling in my girls a heart for the Lord and training and discipling them in the ways of the Lord?

Here I was stressing over what math book Kathrynne should be doing when and how fast she should be progressing and I was completely overlooking the big picture of what home education is supposed to be all about--that of raising up our children in the nurture and admonition of the Lord to send them out as mighty warriors to impact this culture for the glory of God!

As I continued to listen to the sessions by Dr. Baucham, I was so encouraged and relieved; I don't have to try and do it all, I don't have to stress over curriculum and textbooks like this, my primary focus should instead be on loving the Lord, loving my family, discipling my daughters, and setting a Godly example before them.

I was struck with how misplaced my priorities have been. Instead of just loving and enjoying my girls, I've been worrying about academics and progress in the world's eyes. What does it matter what the world thinks of our family? If God is pleased, that's all that matters.

And so I begin this mothering and home-educating thing anew. Bring on the story books, the wagon rides, the ant-watching, and the beater-licking! There will be time enough in the future to cover textbooks and workbooks, today we're just going to enjoy learning from life together.

Related: Kendra's post on Beginning a Classical Education here was very encouraging to me as I seek to refocus my priorities.

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Wednesday, March 12, 2008

California Call-to-Action

Guest Post written by my husband and attorney, Jesse Paine

Much ink has been spilled over the last few days over the California Court of Appeal's recent decision over homeschooling. Some of it has been hype, some measured warning. In light of all the attention and potential broad affects of the ruling, I decided to read it for myself and present my own call to action.

The Decision
On February 28, 2008, the California Court of Appeals handed down a ruling effectively turning back the clock on home education for thousands of parents in California. The case was part of a complex series of appeals to the Court of Appeals from the juvenile court in Los Angeles County.

In the underlying case, a complaint had been brought against a family of eight, where it was alleged that the father was physically and emotionally mistreating the eldest child. In the course of investigating this complaint, the Los Angeles County Department of Children and Family Services discovered that all eight of the family's children were being educated at home by the mother and were not being sent to a brick and mortar school.

During proceedings in the juvenile court, attorneys representing the children asked the court to order that the children not be educated at home and instead be enrolled in a public or private school. The lower court, however, declined to make such an order, and instead observed that the parents had a constitutional right to homeschool the children, despite the fact that the education they had been receiving at home was, in his words, "lousy," "meager," and "bad." He further observed that, as a matter of policy, children should attend brick and mortar schools because of socialization concerns, opportunities for professional counseling, and exposure to various forms of diversity.

The case was appealed to the Court of Appeals based on the sole question: Is it legal to homeschool in the State of California?

The court determined that it was not legal to operate a home school under the compulsory attendance laws of the state. Under California's education milieu, a minor child must attend a public full-time day school, unless the child is tutored by a properly credentialed teacher for the grade being taught.

The court reasoned that a mother teaching a child at home is not a properly credentialed teacher under the law and that attendance at any form of school other than a brick and mortar school was insufficient under the statute.

The court also noted that, although the family was a member of an independent study program (ISP), California law only recognizes ISP's as a tool of the public education establishment for directed learning, and not as a vehicle for conducting home education, especially because it failed the traditional "brick and mortar" test for a "school" under the law. As such, the ISP was acting in conjunction with the family to skirt the compulsory attendance law and was illegitimate.

Additionally, the court completely disregarded the family's federal constitutional argument that they were educating their children at home because of a sincerely held religious belief. This in and of itself was the most disturbing part of the case for me, due to the light treatment it received by the court.

The Effect
This decision is a blow to home educators across the State of California and the rest of the country. In California, the case could in theory expose families to truancy prosecutions punishable by fines, according to the decision. But reality does not always follow theory.

If the decision does stand, criminal prosecutions and civil contempt penalties (for failure to obey court orders) will probably be relatively few and far between. Last I checked, California had other criminal problems more pressing than homeschool parents. Because it is a published opinion (more on this below), this decision could have devastating effect in those states were homeschooling is protected only by a mutual understanding of all parties not to enforce truancy laws against homeschoolers because of their good-faith efforts at actually educating their children.

While this case is a California case and may only be binding in California state courts, it may nevertheless (as long as it remains published) be cited by edu-crats and the education establishment as "persuasive authority" to adopt similar standards in other states. Basically, they would be saying, "Look, California has gone the way of the caveman, and this why and how, and we should adopt California's reasoning and methods and go the way of the caveman ourselves."

The Call-to-Action
This brings us to the call to action. With all that has happened, what can we do? What should we do?

1. First, and foremost, you can and should PRAY. Pray for the family involved in this litigation. Pray for the attorneys involved (for wisdom for the attorneys appealing to the California Supreme Court and for confusion for the state's attorneys). Pray for the judges hearing the case. Remember, God is still sovereign and on the throne. He holds the heart of the judges in His hand and can change it on a moment's notice.

Finally, pray for peace amongst the homeschooling community. I have seen a lot of hand-wringing over this case in recent days and a real need for the peace of God that passes all understanding. We need to keep our eyes focused on Him and trust Him for the result. As I said before, this did not catch God by surprise--He is in control.

2. If you haven't done so already, sign the petition from HSLDA. Do something--even if it's a small thing.

3. Write to your local paper or online in support of home education. One of the striking parts of this decision is that it totally ignores any result-based method of looking at what constitutes a quality education. I guess in California, you can only get a quality education if you sit in a classroom with four walls with 20 other children your own age for 6 hours a day. Let your community see otherwise; let them see the positive opportunities and experiences that are everywhere in home education!

4. Do not lose heart! Remember the brave families that faced real threats and prosecutions in the 1980's so we can stand where we do today. To them, decisions like this were the norm. It is because of their strength and fortitude that we can stand today and decry this opinion as an aberration. Be strong and of good courage. Do not give in to the education establishment. It is your parental right and your parental duty to provide what is best for your children. And contrary to the California Court of Appeals, the State does NOT know best.

5. If you are in California, contact your state legislators and ask them to support Assemble Concurrent Resolution 115, a resolution introduced by Assemblyman Joel Anderson condemning the Court of Appeals decision. While this is in no way binding nor a change in the law, it nevertheless could be used to send a strong message of solidarity to other members of the legislature that homeschoolers are in it for the long fight and will not stand by to see their liberties trampled upon.

6. VOTE. In many jurisdictions, judges are elected by popular vote. Educate yourself on the issues surrounding judicial elections and judicial appointments and vote them out of office or vote to not retain them (if on a retention basis) if they have not been faithful in upholding the rule of law in their particular jurisdiction.

Finally, help support the rights of parents to direct the upbringing of their children in this country. This decision in California may only be the tip of the iceberg if the November elections give liberal Democrats a 2/3 majority in the U.S. Senate. I say this because of the looming United Nations Convention on the Rights of the Child, signed by President Clinton and never acted upon by the Senate. If approved, this treaty will be the law of the land, on equal footing with the Constitution, and will greatly undermine the rights of parents in training and discipling their children.

There is a movement toward introducing a federal constitutional amendment protecting such rights from encroachment by over-zealous state government officers, like those in California, as well as international demigods in the U.N. If you want more information, go to ParentalRights.org.

***A note from Crystal***
I am thankful for my husband taking the time to read through the court decision and wade through much legal analysis to write the above article. The call-to-action has been given--we cannot sit idly by and let the government slowly take away our God-given rights as parents.

What are you going to do about it? I want to hear from you--leave a link below to a blog post you've written telling us how this case in California has motivated you to take action. Perhaps you signed the petition and emailed your friends. Perhaps you contacted your legislators to encourage them to uphold parental rights. Perhaps you wrote a letter to the editor sharing how homeschooling has positively benefited your family.

My husband and I want to encourage each of you to be energized by this case to take positive action. Sure, we can be frustrated at the court's decision, but expressing frustration without doing anything will get us nowhere.

So, leave your blog link below (or a comment if you don't have a blog) telling us what positive action you are taking to preserve and protect homeschooling freedoms, and, more importantly, parental rights.

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Monday, March 10, 2008

Coming soon: California Call-to-Action Campaign

We arrived home around 1 a.m. this morning from a whirlwind weekend trip to visit our families. It was so nice to get to go back "home" for a couple days! And now I'm spending the morning catching up on laundry and unpacking the suitcases while the girls sleep in.

While I was gone, my inbox was flooded with emails from concerned friends and blog readers regarding the California Court of Appeal decision saying homeschooling is illegal in California unless a parent is a certified teacher.

I am thrilled to see so many individuals and families who are passionate about homeschooling freedoms and--more importantly--parental rights. It's about time we wake up and take a stand for our God-given rights and responsibilities to parent our own children! "Evil prevails when good men [and women] do nothing."

My husband and I are working on a special California Call-to-Action Campaign which we'll be hosting here this week. We need your help, though. We're compiling some of the best articles and blog posts on this subject to share. If you have read an exceptional blog post or article on something related to what is going on in California, would you take a moment to email it to me (biblicalwomanhoodATsbcglobal.net)?

We're also going to encourage every single one of you to do something practical. If you have taken action in some way to publicly promote or support homeschooling freedoms and parental rights as a result of this California case, we want to hear from you. We're looking for practical, simple ideas to inspire others to step up and let their voices be heard. So, put on your thinking caps, get creative, and let us know what you come up with!

Be prepared to come together with us on Wednesday as we take a stand for our God-given rights as parents. Until then, pray, sign the petition, and seek the Lord as to how He would have you to act.

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Thursday, March 06, 2008

A day in the life of Kathrynne

I've been receiving more than a handful of requests recently from moms asking for me to sharing more about what books and other materials I'm using to teach Kathrynne. Instead of giving you a simple list, I thought it might be more self-explanatory if I instead just let you peek in on a typical day of learning at our home.

Before I share, though, I want to preface this with the usual disclaimer that this is just what we are doing
right now--next year (or maybe even next month), it might be entirely different. I also am just learning as far as this whole homeschooling and mothering thing goes so I am not offering any of this up as seasoned advice. I only share this in the hopes it might be encouraging or inspirational to a few of you other young moms out there. Please do not feel like you need to do what we're doing--these are just some ideas of things which we're enjoying or things which are working for us in this season.

Speaking of this season, I also must remind you that we are in an easy season of life right now so I'm doing more with Kathrynne than I likely would be were I in a
simple season. She's also extremely eager to learn and actually begs for me to "do school" with her everyday. If she weren't so anxious about it, I'd probably be slower in introducing some of this to her.

Disclaimers aside, here's what a somewhat-typical day would look like in our home...


Kathrynne and Kaitlynn get up around 8:45 a.m. (they go to bed around 9:30 p.m. which is one reason they sleep in) and I get them dressed and then we head downstairs for breakfast.

During breakfast, I read one story from The Bible in Pictures for Little Eyes and we read through the ABC Memory book. We've very much enjoyed both of these and I would highly recommend them if you are looking for some simple ways to teach Scripture and Bible stories to young children. After reading those, we also read Genesis 1 complete with dramatization from mom.
After breakfast, we clean up the kitchen together while Kaitlynn occupies herself as our resident "human vacuum cleaner" under the table (what can I say?--we do sweep most everyday, if that makes any of you germa-phobics feel any better!).

Since Kathrynne turned three, we've been giving her more responsibilities around the home and encouraging her to look for opportunities to take initiative and have a servant's heart. One of the jobs I'm teaching her to do right now is to dry the dishes. I've been quite impressed with how quickly she's picked it up and how much she enjoys working with me!

What special memories we're making as we work alongside each other in the kitchen and I help her learn how to complete chores correctly and efficiently. I'm hoping to work myself out of a job one day soon!

Once the kitchen is cleaned up and the floor is swept, I switch the laundry from the washer to the dryer (I usually start a load every morning.) and then we carry up the load from the dryer and the girls help me fold laundry.
Then it's time for our morning chores. Kathrynne normally helps me some with these and she also helps by playing with Kaitlynn for part of the time. Kaitlynn often busies herself with trying to pull some books out of the bookshelf. She's already quite fascinated by books!

When our morning chores are completed, we head to the kitchen to get dinner preparations done and, if we have time, we do some extra baking. Kathrynne loves to help with baking and I often allow her to concoct some "recipes" of her own--which she thinks is about the best thing ever.

Lunchtime!

During lunch, we review her ABC cards (these are some my mom had from the Christ-Centered Curriculum). We have a little song we sing with these cards and it's one of her favorite school things to do.
Next we review her numbers chart (also from Christ-Centered Curriculum). We count from 1-20 while pointing to the corresponding number. We also usually read a few fun picture books, too. I let Kathrynne choose from her large stash--usually limiting it to two or three per day.

After lunch, we sit together on the sofa and do her Alpha-Phonics reading for the day. She's just learning letter recognition right now--though she is starting to understand the concept of letter sounds and putting them together and is anxious to read.

Here's what the section she is currently working through looks like. She normally reads one half-page of letters per day.

After our post-lunch school time, we have our 1:00-3:00 p.m. afternoon free time. If we have an errand we need to run, this is when we do it. Wednesday afternoons we are hosting a small book study at our home with a few other moms. Fridays we go to the library during this time. Mondays, Tuesdays, and Thursdays we are normally home and the girls play with Legos, read picture books, color, or sometimes watch a movie while I work on projects close by.

From 3:00-3:30 we read together on the sofa again. Right now we're reading through the Little House series and loving it.

3:30-5:30 is Quiet Time. The girls are in separate rooms and usually nap during this time, though Kathrynne can play or read quietly in her room also.

From 5:30 on, it's family time so we don't have a set schedule, though we normally have a basic routine: Spend time with Daddy, eat dinner and have some quality family discussion, clean up the kitchen and give the girls baths, read together as a family (we just finished up Adventures in Missionary Heroism and have started 1776:The Illustrated Edition this week), sing and read the Bible together, and then we all go to bed.

And there you have an idea of what a typical day looks like from mostly Kathrynne's vantage point. By the way, this post was originally inspired by reading this encouraging post from Tammy.

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